It all begins with self-actualization, but most of us struggle to do this daily. We make lists of what we want in life, for the one we want, to fill the check boxes, and we don't have a list of what we need to become. Not to become to attract others but we need to become just to be. To be the best version of us.Getting to understand yourself, you don't know what you need in your life till you figure out who you are. We so often rush into situations without first knowing what will truly make us feel fulfilled and full of purpose. It all comes back to how self-aware are you, to what you need and what you want. I can't become what I don't first know. Know who you need to be, and you will know what you need in life.